Division Of Families

God always prepare you for whats about to come..A family has been divided..Five minutes ago..I had to turn over a friend children to their grandmother.. It was'nt turning the kids over to grandmother that bother me..it was the way it was done.I get a knock on the door..The grandmother, the grandmother sister and brother come to my home..They said I come to get the kids..I know the grandmother and family.We have talk about the welfare of the kids..The importants of her finishing the school year out..besides it was only going to be 26 days. and the mother would have been home...I feel that the grandmother could have show me the act of kindness and let me know she was coming..she knows I am not a trouble maker or loud mouth..The sister or female relative of the grandmother, stop and ask me, do you have the Food Stamp card..I said Yes. its in the purse..she stops and look in the purse..like I was a liar..I was throwed by that..but, I said to the female relative..Its in there..I am not like that. she said..I know..I just want to make sure everybodys cover..My issuse is not the grandmother coming to get her grandkids..it was her not coming to me as a Woman of God..saying Mary, I will be getting the kids tomorrow or whatever. she had previous agreed to letting me keep the kids for the 26 days until the mother return..I thought we were all taught as Children of King to do everything. Decent and in order..I love those kids.and have been there for them.for at least 5 years as the mother trys to get herself together..My sadness is for the Mother, the children..The mother is not a bad person. Just making bad decision and getting off the road to trouble.but, never once did she put the kids in a dangerous situation..So that is my Sadness, I know it was the right thing to do to for kids to be with their family..But, then why am I so Sad. Maybe I am wrong to think I know whats best..Maybe I am wrong to love people and children so much..My daughter often tells me. Mom, you get to attached. but, who can controll the heart..but, I know God knows Best..




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